The same question, every week.
Daddy, have I got enough for it yet?Every few days, in my house
My kids save. Birthday money from their grandparents, a bit of pocket money, the odd fiver from an uncle. It all goes into a savings account that I look after.
So whenever they wanted to know how close they were, they came to me. I’d open my banking app, scroll past my own bills to find their account, and give the same answer.
Not yet.
They’d ask how much more. I’d say “quite a bit”. They’d wander off a little deflated, and a week later we’d do it all again.
I wanted them to see it for themselves. But I wasn’t going to hand a seven-year-old my phone with my bank open on it. One wrong tap and you’ve paid someone, or moved money you didn’t mean to.
What bothered me most was that “not yet” teaches nothing. It closes the conversation. It doesn’t tell a child how close they are, how long it might take, or what they could do about it.
So I made them something that does.